Funny and easy to read
ByChristine Gribbinon
A very enjoyable and entertaining read written from the heart .Shows an insight into what a mother feels when she learns her daughter is gay.
Funny and easy to read.
This frank and yet sensitive story of a mother coming to terms with her feelings over her daughter's sexual orientation also provides a wonderful view into the Jewish experience in Scotland, the evolution of public (and private) attitudes towards the LGBT community, and being a Boomer parent. Combining wry humor and an impressive amount of introspection, the narrator take us through her daughter's entire life, sharing the highs, lows, and little quirks that lend humanity and verisimilitude to the journey.
Accepting the social revolution in attitudes regarding sexual orientation is not at all the same thing as foreseeing (or being comfortable with) the challenges of actually parenting a gay teen in a supportive manner; I imagine this book will invaluable for parents as they attempt to adapt the rituals and expectations embedded in our culture to these changed circumstances.
Rahul Mereand-Sinha
This is a book packed with humour and personal reminscences. The author's personality shines
through.It takes you into the author's personal world and reveals the influence of her Jewish up-bringing in 60's Glasgow. It has a strong sense of family and tells the story of two different generations and how life works out differently to our plans. However, we are enriched by change and our life moves forward in welcome and unexpected ways.
Mr A B Picker
This is a funny, quite charming and unique account of the emotional journey of a mother, when she discovers her daughter is gay. An interesting insight is given into the family dynamics but the upbeat quality of the writing made sure it was an excellent read. I would highly recommend this book.
M Doyle
This book relayed a personal journey in a quirky and humours way. The mother's thoughts, feelings and emotions on the coming out of her daughter as well as the Jewish sense of humour makes it a unique and enjoyable read. I would definitely recommend this book to others.
Lynda Webb
A searingly honest account of a mother and father's reaction to their daughter 'coming out'. It quite clearly depicts through the eyes of her mother the agonising journey Lila went through before admitting to them she was a lesbian. The fall out from it is described in detail and pulls you into the lives of each member of the family. The author's humour gave a wonderful insight into both the journey and Jewish life. I thoroughly recommend this book.
Linda McArthur Roy
A wonderful, charming read on a subject very many of us will never experience, having a child come out as gay. No one knows how they would feel until it happens, and Sandra gives the reader an insight into the shock she and her husband felt at the time, even though considering themselves to be open minded.
P Worsley
A great and true story,very human and easy to identify with,one to keep in your library to read again especially on a day when you need a reality check as life continues changing.
Kay
Great story told with humour (and a little pathos) but very enjoyable. Sandra's tale of her daughter 'coming out' was touching on so many levels.
Carole C
Loved it! A complete reminder of me coming out and the process of my Mum accepting it! She appears to prefer my fiancee now too ;)
Louise G
ByChristine Gribbinon
A very enjoyable and entertaining read written from the heart .Shows an insight into what a mother feels when she learns her daughter is gay.
Funny and easy to read.
This frank and yet sensitive story of a mother coming to terms with her feelings over her daughter's sexual orientation also provides a wonderful view into the Jewish experience in Scotland, the evolution of public (and private) attitudes towards the LGBT community, and being a Boomer parent. Combining wry humor and an impressive amount of introspection, the narrator take us through her daughter's entire life, sharing the highs, lows, and little quirks that lend humanity and verisimilitude to the journey.
Accepting the social revolution in attitudes regarding sexual orientation is not at all the same thing as foreseeing (or being comfortable with) the challenges of actually parenting a gay teen in a supportive manner; I imagine this book will invaluable for parents as they attempt to adapt the rituals and expectations embedded in our culture to these changed circumstances.
Rahul Mereand-Sinha
This is a book packed with humour and personal reminscences. The author's personality shines
through.It takes you into the author's personal world and reveals the influence of her Jewish up-bringing in 60's Glasgow. It has a strong sense of family and tells the story of two different generations and how life works out differently to our plans. However, we are enriched by change and our life moves forward in welcome and unexpected ways.
Mr A B Picker
This is a funny, quite charming and unique account of the emotional journey of a mother, when she discovers her daughter is gay. An interesting insight is given into the family dynamics but the upbeat quality of the writing made sure it was an excellent read. I would highly recommend this book.
M Doyle
This book relayed a personal journey in a quirky and humours way. The mother's thoughts, feelings and emotions on the coming out of her daughter as well as the Jewish sense of humour makes it a unique and enjoyable read. I would definitely recommend this book to others.
Lynda Webb
A searingly honest account of a mother and father's reaction to their daughter 'coming out'. It quite clearly depicts through the eyes of her mother the agonising journey Lila went through before admitting to them she was a lesbian. The fall out from it is described in detail and pulls you into the lives of each member of the family. The author's humour gave a wonderful insight into both the journey and Jewish life. I thoroughly recommend this book.
Linda McArthur Roy
A wonderful, charming read on a subject very many of us will never experience, having a child come out as gay. No one knows how they would feel until it happens, and Sandra gives the reader an insight into the shock she and her husband felt at the time, even though considering themselves to be open minded.
P Worsley
A great and true story,very human and easy to identify with,one to keep in your library to read again especially on a day when you need a reality check as life continues changing.
Kay
Great story told with humour (and a little pathos) but very enjoyable. Sandra's tale of her daughter 'coming out' was touching on so many levels.
Carole C
Loved it! A complete reminder of me coming out and the process of my Mum accepting it! She appears to prefer my fiancee now too ;)
Louise G